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  • (Day 201) Play Beautiful

    World-cup-2010-logoThe World Cup is being played in Johannesburg, South Africa. Much of the world will come to a stop in honor of this month long soccer competition (at least it does in my family). Today Brazil will open its play against North Korea. Brazil is ranked  #1 in the world and Korea is #105. Even though the North Koreans are generally known for being secretive and aggressive, the Brazilians should easily defeat them.

    However, in a strange twist the Brazilians are on the wrong side of a role reversal. Their coach Carlos Dunga has been saying he is willing to play ugly to win. Dunga has been criticized by journalists and commentators of betraying Brazil’s famed Joga Bonito  since he became coach four years ago.

    Joga Bonito which means play beautiful, is a group dedicated to eliminating unfair and unsportsmanlike play from soccer. It promotes fair and creative play as well as honesty and team spirit, bringing out what they call the true and beautiful side of soccer. Their motto is “play from the heart.”

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  • (Day 200) A Crooked Man In a Straight World

    MG005_Crooked ManThe Motivation

    It is day 200, twenty percent of the Trust Tour is complete and that means I have been at this for over six months. During this time people have asked me what motivated me to do the tour. Some thought of this as a spiritual journey, others suggested it was a business, last week someone wondered aloud if I had something to hide.  The truth is that the tour brings out the best in me. It gives me a chance to meet amazing people and keeps me learning and growing. Most of all I am hopeful that in some small way I can have an impact on you and ultimately our world. I believe passionately that the most important issue of our time is trust.

    The tour also has helped me heal. Integrity is about trusting yourself and I have a good amount of experience struggling with this issue. It’s very nature makes it difficult to share but I believe much good could come from doing so. As I type these words, I am reminded of the risk that comes with honesty. I also know that trust can only be created when someone is willing to be vulnerable, so I will take that risk. This is a sensitive subject so if you are not an adult or if you really don’t want to know more about me here is a place to  “bail out” … otherwise I will trust that I have your permission to share my story openly.

    Chief Joseph once said, “It does not take many words to tell the truth.” I can tell you in just a few words.

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  • (Day 199) Trust Falls

    I thought we could use a little trust humor today…

  • (Day 198) Dad’s Sayings At eVenture 2

  • (Day 197) Dad’s Saying At eVenture

  • (Day 196) Kids Who Lie Sooner Are Smarter?

    Baby-devil-russoBelow are highlights from a BBC article that was published today…Toddlers who tell lies early on are more likely to do well later.

    The complex brain processes involved in formulating a lie are an indicator of a child’s early intelligence, they add.

    A Canadian study of 1,200 children aged two to 17 suggests those who are able to lie have reached an important developmental stage.

    Only a fifth of two-year-olds tested in the study were able to lie.

    But at age four, 90% were capable of lying, the study found. The rate increases with age to a peak at age 12.

    ‘Developmental milestone’

    The director of the Institute of Child Study at Toronto University, Dr Kang Lee, said: “Parents should not be alarmed if their child tells a fib.

    “Their children are not going to turn out to be pathological liars. Almost all children lie.

    “It is a sign that they have reached a new developmental milestone.

    “Those who have better cognitive development lie because they can cover up their tracks.”

    This was because they had developed the ability to carry out a complex juggling act which involves keeping the truth at the back of their brains.

    He added: “They even make bankers in later life.”

    I guess what they’re saying in the article is that we are all natural born liars and the smarter we are, the more we lie. I guess some of that makes sense. Maybe it explains why so many of our leaders are corrupt; they learned to lie early in life. Do you think part of this test should be a study in what the family culture is like? Maybe kids learn to lie because they learned it from their parents, or their community?

    The great thing about being a human being is, we have a choice. So, as we grow out of our teems we can begin to make the decision not to lie. Maybe it looks more like a bell curve where we start out not lying; by our teenage years we are at the peek of our lying capacity, and then as we mature the lies slow again. Remember… no matter how smart you are, and how well you can mask the truth, you have a choice to be honest…. you know where I stand.

  • (Day 195) Cool Bernie’s Perspective On Trust

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