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  • (Day 191) Credit Card Crooks

    piggyToday I called my credit card company to find out why I did not get a statement this month. I had signed up for an electronic statement and it never showed up in my inbox.  While I was on the line I realized they had upped my annual APR to 30.25%… What ??? I could not believe it. I have never heard of a rate that high. I immediately remembered that I made the payment 2 – 3 days late last month and they must be taking advantage of that mistake.  When I asked the representative if that was true she said, “well yes, that and you were also a day late last November and your account is now under review.” What does that mean? I pay off my account every month in full. The  interest rate is somewhat irrelevant but to jump my rate to 30.24 % without telling me… that was frustrating.

    Okay so why am I telling you about my finances… 30.24%  is credit card corruption, these are card crooks, no, they are credit card creeps… 30.24%??? Are they kidding????  I’m not a mathematician or a finance person but I know that if I had $10,000 balance at a 30.24 annual percentage rate, that is $3000. If I could only send in the minimum  $200 payment, that means at the end of year I would’ve paid back $2400 of the of the $3000 interest charge. Falling behind by $600 a year.  Basically, I would be a credit card prisoner and these the banks would have me for life. How many people are in this situation?  It is probably the people that can least afford it that are paying this kind of interest rate. They are stuck.  This is immoral, irresponsible, unethical and corrupt. This is the kind of stuff that starts revolutions. It is no better than giving cocaine to children, trapping them in a cycle of pain.

    To be fair, consumers have not always been perfect either. So, I don’t to leave all the blame on the credit card companies, there is a balance here. Many people have walked away from their credit card payments leaving these banks holding the bag. Credit card fraud is ubiquitous, it happens all day everyday.  There are people that make a good living stealing credit card numbers and taking advantage of the credit card companies.  There has got to be accountability and trust of both sides. Stop cheating – do the right thing… both of you.

    I canceled my credit card with Barclays/USAir today because of the way they treated me. I don’t suspect they will miss me much and it will be a hassle for me to switch to someone new, but that aggravation is the price of mistrust. I want to improve the quality of our lives and not waste time on stuff like this.  That is why I’m am on the Trust Tour, that is why we need to change and that is why I need your help.

    Anybody else know of a situation like this?

  • (Day 190) Paying IT Forward – A Trust Builder

    Below are a few pictures of the people that took helicopter rides with me recently. All they needed to do was to ask, and have a story about how they were paying IT (Integrity and Trust) forward.  I believe I had as much fun as everyone else. Maybe the person who is giving is actually having as much pleasure as the person who is receiving? Paying “IT” forward is cool and it builds trust. Thank you to all the people that came out for paying it forward, and trusting me to take them on a safe and enjoyable ride over the Lehigh Valley.

    The company that was going to purchase my helicopter this week had a change of plans and I fine with it becuase I get to use the helopter for a little longer.

    If anyone else would like to go for a ride.. leave me a comment here or send me an email. I love taking people up. All you need is a pay it forward story. Check out the original offer right here… [...]

  • (Day 189) Trust No One

    Stalin-140508_27880tI trust no one, not even myself.

    Joseph Stalin

    A  few years ago, I read a book about Joseph Stalin. When I finally put the book down, I don’t think I could have taken enough showers to cleanse myself of the filth. For several days afterward I could not shake the gloomy feeling, a sense of darkness, fear and despair. It was a horrific time in our history.  Everyone anywhere near this man ended up dead. He did not discriminate, he killed collaborators, friends, opponents and in many cases their families. He purged anyone who might even consider disagreeing with him, millions of them. Even the most loyal members of his party ended up dead. He totally wiped out two complete administrations during his dictatorship. Many of the most talented artists and intellectuals of the day were put on mock trials that he personally orchestrated. Many begged for their lives and pledged loyalty to Stalin before being shot, tortured or worked to death. In one of the scariest moments in world history Stalin made a pact with Hitler.  Of course it did not work because they could not trust each other. We should not try to imagine what the world would look like should they have succeeded. [...]

  • (Day 188) Who Do You Trust?

    shakespeare_2_mdLove all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

    William Shakespeare

    I love this quote from William Shakespeare, it speaks to exactly how I want to live my life. Many times when I have the honor to speak in front of a group of people there is a great energy that transfers between us. It starts with me trusting them and loving them, then sometimes, if my message is on key I get the love back. I can feel it. It shows itself in their eyes, we are together. I give them my respect and they give it back to me and we are connected. It’s like we are making love. The more I give to them the more they give back and we work together until in the end I leave feeling exhausted. I have anxiety whenever I speak in public and it is this feeling of connection that makes me fight through the anxiety to do it again and again.

    I can also say with confidence that I love all. I really do… I see people as my brothers and sisters.  Do I trust everybody? Certainly not, that would be foolish. But I feel connected to many and have good relationships with many. True trust takes personal experience over time to create and that can only be done with a small group of people over time.

    The last part of the quote has to do with doing no wrong. This reminds me of the doctors creed, do no harm. It is my goal everyday to do my best to help the people around me. If you are alive you are going to hurt others accidentally, and I am sure I have done my fair share. But now, more than ever, I am careful not to hurt anyone. I see myself like a boat in the water that leave a wake wherever it goes. I try to be aware of my wake and make sure it does not do damage after I am gone.  I believe loving all, trusting a few, and doing no harm is exactly what will raise the bar on the trust in the world.  Thank you William Shakespeare!

  • (Day 186) The Meaning Of Memorial Day

    213memorialdayWe celebrated our Memorial Day by having a backyard cookout with the family. We played Frisbee, ate chicken kabobs and shared some small talk, capping off a nice family day. Nobody ever mentioned a word about war or death or the sacrifice made to make this day possible. As I looked around, I was reminded that the meaning of Memorial Day seemed to be lost. I felt a little guilty. Weren’t we were supposed to be honoring the people that have died for our freedoms? I wondered how we strayed so far from the intention. If you did not know any better, you would have thought the holiday was intended to act as a three day weekend to mark the beginning of summer season.

    My father-in-law, who was at the picnic, was probably the only person there that understood the real meaning of the day. He was a medic during World War II and he saw the brutal reality, much which he chooses to keep to himself. He is probably also aware that we have just finished the bloodiest century of all time, a time when a hundred million people were murdered. That equals a dying human every 30 seconds, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for 100 years. This is not from some natural disaster, a tsunami, hurricane or an earthquake. This is man made, a conscious decision of one human to snuff out the life of another, one hundred million times. We did it on purpose. We killed over ideology, over power, over an arbitrary line in the sand.

    This Memorial Day as I write, I feel the sacrifice that was made to stop the manipulation of others. I also feel the outrage, the sadness, the incredible disrespect and wastefulness of it all. How many brilliant, wonderful, interesting, beautiful, creative people did we murder?  Was our next Edison, Amelia Earhart, Einstein, Mother Teresa, Mozart or Lincoln among them? Worse, we now have exponentially more powerful weapons at our disposal to kill .. how many more are we going to kill this century? Will it be 200,000,000? Maybe we will only kill 50,000,000.  Wouldn’t that be great? We could tell our grandchildren we made a 50% improvement.

    I am concerned but I also have great hope for the future… or I would not be on the trust tour…to me, Memorial Day is about trust and respect. A day I honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice. A day to remind myself to live my life with as much integrity as I can… if I do that, and others do too… maybe future Memorials Days will be renamed Family days and we can just throw the Frisbee, eat chicken kabobs and share some small talk and not have to feel guilty about missing the true meaning of the holiday.

  • (Day 185) Your Gut, Do You Trust IT?

    070713_EX_gutsTNOn Friday, I set out to do a trust tour video blog on a man with an incredible story of survival. I had read a story on CNN.com.about a boy who was abducted years ago. Later, in a amazing stroke of luck, he was found alive by hunters. His journey did not stop there however, his parents and the community were not well prepared for this kind of event and, as a result, he suffered a sense of shame. This, although maybe not intentional, was a deep betrayal of their relationship, the worst kind of mistrust.

    This story caught my interest and I wondered, “How could he trust anything or anyone ever again?” I wanted to learn more: How did he get through it? How is he doing now? What can we all learn from his experience?  It took almost six months to get an appointment and finally, on Friday, I was going to meet him. I got up early in the morning to start my drive to Virginia.

    I was feeling anxious given the gravity of the subject matter and decided to spend some time getting to know him before the camera started rolling. About 45 minutes into our meeting I began to have a little bit of an uneasy feeling. As he shared more and more of his story, I had deeper and deeper respect for what he had been through. It’s been almost 40 years since the event but he is still in the process of healing. I knew his story could be of interest to a large group of people, so I really wanted to capture it on video… but my gut did not feel right. I started to check in on what I was feeling. I knew he had told his story to other media organizations, so that was not the issue… I started to think that the real story was about his healing, and what his life is about now. It was starting to become more clear that this larger, more important, story was not fully cooked yet…. if I forced it, it would not be the truth and that would be wrong for everyone.  I could not record the interview – crap!

    I stayed a while longer and we had a very interesting conversation. I gave him my best ideas on trust and shared my view for the future.  I  hope I was able to help in some small way. I thanked him for spending time with me and got in my car for a long drive back on Friday night in Memorial  Day holiday traffic.  It was a 17 hour day and very long ride home without “the story.” What I got was a far greater gift however…the  honor to be with him and living up to my own integrity and trusting my gut, IT (Integrity and Trust) never lets me down. Do you trust your gut?

  • (Day 180) Tony Salvaggio Part III – Cooperative Entrepreneurship

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